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The terrible boss criticizes in front of others

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In the past, I’ve blogged about one of the common traits of terrible bosses – that they are micro-managers.  Today, I want to cover another widespread characteristic of the terrible boss – s/he tells you off in front of others.

Terrible bosses scold in public

There is only one thing more disheartening than being criticized by someone in authority, and that is being criticized in front of an audience, particularly when that audience is the people you work with.  But this is something that terrible bosses do regularly.  You see, from their perspective, it is a way to control by fear, and quite frankly, they do it often because it is effective.  If they can control you and get you to do what they want, AND build up their already low self-esteem in the process, why shouldn’t they?

Sadly though, even though it may work in the short-term, they aren’t building relationships for the long-term.  What that means is when the power shifts (which if often does at some point in the future), then these horrible bosses have no goodwill to fall back on.  They’re on their own.  But even though karma says that they will eventually get what is coming to them, right now, if you happen to be at the receiving end, you’re stuck with their inappropriate and demoralizing behaviour.  A lousy place to be!

In case you haven’t read about them before, these are six common characteristics of the terrible boss (also referred to as the “devil boss” and the “boss from hell”).  In addition to criticizing in public, here are the other five:

What else do you have to add to the list?  Please comment below.

2 responses to “The terrible boss criticizes in front of others”

  1. Caroline

    As a guest I witnessed a hotel staff member in a prominent chain being criticised by a senior member of staff. This staff member smiled at me graciously and met my request to see a room to see if it was suitable for my disabled daughter who was due to have a minor operation. I felt so humiliated for him and have never forgotten his kindness. I am due to visit the same hotel in April and would like to bring him a gift… any suggestions?

    1. Caroline, a small gift that is indicative of your home town, accompanied by a cash gift is always appreciated by service staff. Add a short personal note to it, and you’ll have a home run!!

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Merge Gupta-Sunderji, CSP, Leadership Expert

Merge’s leadership development consultancy has one singular focus – to turn managers into leaders; to help great people become exceptional leaders so that they can turn their people power into real and tangible results. Through her speaking, training, consulting, mentoring and facilitation services, Merge helps leaders in organizations create high-performing workplaces.